​What a week!
 
We took the decision to close our restaurants exactly one week ago on Sunday 15th March after a bruising few weeks of losing trade and having read a lot of articles and spoken to our friends in the NHS. Regardless of the government’s hesitation it seemed to us to be irresponsible to keep asking our team to travel to work and to keep open a space where people gather.  
 
At that point we were not only facing up to the fact that we were out of a job for the foreseeable future, but that our industry and our livelihoods were also destroyed.  It was shocking and heartbreaking.
 
We had to clean everything like mad and secure the sites and give all our food away to charity, friends and family - all with broken hearts.  
 
Just when we were finally coming to terms with the situation came the unexpected announcement from the government late on Friday 20th to support 80% of wages. This means that together with the grants that have been promised, we can survive a lockdown and this bold move has bought everybody some breathing space.
 
We have pioneered the healthy socializing scene since 2015 - and 2020 was our year of it finally becoming mainstream to choose a mindful drinking lifestyle combined with a conscious, plant-based diet.  We remain the only restaurant bar to combine the two to create the concept of a space free from all toxins, temptations and bad decisions, for yourself or the planet. So it would be ridiculously heartbreaking if it came to and end in 2020.
 
Despite the fact that people are probably not going to eat out much this year, we believe that when they are ready to, that our type of delicious nutrition will serve people best as they think even more consciously about the effect of what they put in their body on their own health and immunity, and on the overall effect on planet Earth.
 
So we wanted to say a big thank you to our whole team for staying strong throughout this turbulent week, to say thank you to this wonderful group of humans who together have created the passion and love which goes into making the Redemption experience truly ‘spoil yourself without spoiling yourself’.  
 
We’d like to also thank all of our suppliers and our shareholders who continue to believe in us. We thank you for your patience during this difficult time.
 
But most importantly thank you to our amazing customers for all the love you give to us. 
 
Whatever happens next we can be proud that we achieved everything independent of any hand-outs or family money or corporate cash.  We got so many amazing 5* reviews, so many plaudits and accolades, and we’ve had a lot of fun along the way.  

We wish everyone a safe and healthy isolation period and we look forward to seeing you on the other side.

Love and peas
​Catherine and Andrea

​@soberdave burst (or maybe stumbled) into the sober world just over a year ago when he realised that his life had to change for the sake of his health and his marriage. In a short space of time he has become a real character and influential champion of the sober movement and good friend of ours! Sober doesn't care what sex you are but in a space dominated by empowered sober women speaking out about their sober journeys, Dave has brought a different perspective to the issues that effect us all. 

There is a lot of shame that surrounds drinking, recovery and just becoming sober curious that many people especially men can struggle with. Its ok to to not live up to 'lad' stereotypes, its ok to talk about mental health, relationships, even erectile disfunction! Yes lets all get a bit intimate here. Mental health is a huge elephant in the room many want to ignore, 12.5% of Men in the UK are suffering from mental health disorders* and men are more than three times likely to become alcohol dependent than women* The culture of 'manning up' and 'growing a pair' has meant that many young men kept quiet about their feelings and emotions and let booze smooth over the cracks. We want to ensure generations of men are growing up and growing into a world where talking is the norm, toxic masculinity is removed and the culture of what it is to be a real man is not defined by an outdated and damaging social construct.

Dave has had a crazy year, talking, motivating, pushing his sober journey and opening up channels for others to take that leap. How are you feeling now January is coming to a close? We hand it over to Dave to to tell you a little more about is journey  and how to take your learnings from this month into 2020!

Another day, another hangover... When is this going to end? Trouble is, I’m the only one that can do something about it and I’m not sure how.

My drinking had taken me to an all time low. Hiding alcohol from my wife like it was part of a
normal day. Downing a bottle of Sauvignon during the, ‘I’m having a quick shower’ routine. Hiding the empty bottle somewhere I would forget about later. My marriage, my health and my self esteem was at rock bottom. Christmas was a blur as usual. Standard arguments about the noise of the kids, the constant mess and the plate spinning around getting my daily fix as my daily habit was more on view during the holidays. “I know I’ve got to sort it out,’ was the regular statement that fell from my lips. After a while I think it was a bit like Peter and the wolf. It started to mean nothing. January came and I had no real plan.

Wouldn’t the Dry January campaign be an ideal start for me to think about my toxic relationship with the dreaded booze? Maybe, but the thought of it made me shudder. Driving to work on that first morning back after the New Year, I received a text message from a very good friend of mine. “How do you feel about giving up alcohol for three months, to see where you are with your marriage, life and your health?’ I laughed out loud, chucked the phone onto the passenger seat and continued on my journey to work. “Bloody hell, you look like shit!” my colleague said. I knew I did.

That night I went to see my friend who sent the message. Within ten minutes I shook his hand and the deal was done. It was perfect timing as I had only missed the first few days of dry January. I felt strangely elated! That very night, I changed my instagram handle to @soberdave as I felt the urge to document my journey. The first few days felt remarkably easy, I think it was the euphoria of finally making the decision. After doing some online research, I changed my diet in order to address the impending cravings. I read that food like broccoli, salmon and nuts increased dopamine levels* and I also had several early nights to avoid the temptation of drinking. Putting my headphones on and listening to sober podcasts also helped and made me feel like I wasn’t alone on this new journey. It wasn’t long before I realised that the benefits of giving up drinking were far out weighing the old binging of before but I also knew that after the three months had come to an end, it wouldn’t take long to go back to how they were before. I woke up one day and shouted to the world ( well to my wife and my instagram followers!) that this was it! No more drinking! Ever.

We had an early spring and a mini heatwave. I walked across the common with our little chihuahua and noticed the sea of picnic blankets covering the grass. The clinking of champagne glasses and the chorus of bottle lids popping was like torture. Out of the corner of my eye I could see the local pub, garden full and the smoke from the freshly lit barbecue swirling into the air. I felt suffocated. This was my first challenge. Ironically it was around the three month mark. I turned and walked briskly home. I barked at my wife, and went to bed. It was two o clock in the afternoon! I googled my symptoms and bang, there it was - the pink cloud, the honeymoon period was over. Time to knuckle down Daveyboy or this would all be in vein. I had a few of these difficult moments but the more I rode the storm, the easier they became. I organised a sober event in London in September and I also trained to ride my bike from London to Paris. Fitness regimes are a huge part of my sobriety. Weight loss and increased levels of fitness reduced my blood pressure* from critically high to almost perfect within a few months. Finally, I could put my socks on without feeling winded!

I am now nearing the end of my first year of sobriety. I hosted another event at the Redemption Bar in Covent Garden which was amazing and it hit me that night just how far I’d come.
I have spoken about my journey on several panels and already my “Dry January” calendar is
almost fully booked for other speaking events and podcast appearances. Sharing my journey has been such a crucial part of my recovery and hopefully, along the way, I have managed to help others too.
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If you have decided to do Dry January I would suggest you prepare for it like you would do for a 5K or any other physical and mental challenge. Diet is key, sleep is definitely a huge part especially for me as I didn’t have a solid nights sleep in years. Exercise well as this will help raise your dopamine levels. Read. There are so many Quick Lit books on the market, one of my favourites is written by my now lovely friend Clare Pooley, called “The Sober diaries.” Listen to podcasts. This will encourage you to feel part of this incredible community rather than feeling alone. Tell people. You will be surprised how many of your friends and family will support you. Be safe. This isn’t a competition. If you really can’t do it you can always start again another time, the fact you have tried.
is amazing in itself. Finally, maybe it's time to reflect on your drinking routine. You don’t have to go on a massive blow out on the first of February. You will be surprised with just how good you will feel after a month of abstinence. Maybe it’s simply time to be more mindful. Sobriety is a journey and you will know inside what you want to do, but going a month without alcohol is a great achievement.
I have just  celebrated my first Soberversary  and I honestly wouldn’t change a single thing! 

Follow @Soberdave on insta and check out one of his podcasts from last year below...Cheers Dave!

FEAR NOT! TONI JONES FROM SHELF HELP CLUB IS HERE TO HELP!

FIVE BOOKS TO BOOST YOUR DRY JAN WILLPOWER

By Toni Jones
 
Today – Friday January 17th – is the day that those of us attempting a Dry January are most likely to fall off the wagon and into the pub.
 
A killer combination of dark days, grim weather, December credit card bills and, well, it being a Friday, means that today is the day our will power will be seriously waning.
 
But nobody likes being a cliché, and so before you become another tipsy statistic on failed resolutions we have a hit list of ‘quit lit’ inspo from our friends at Shelf Help to help keep you going.
 
 

1. FOR THOSE LOOKING FOR A NEW TRIBE

How to be  Mindful Drinker by The Club Soda Community
 
Club Soda is more than just a community, it’s a movement, towards a world ‘where nobody feels out of place for not drinking’ and their first book is a filled with proven tips and tricks on how we can all change our relationship with booze. It’s also a great guide to simple mindfulness, and how becoming aware of how and why we drink now can help us make important changes going forward.
 

1. FOR SCIENCE AND FACT-LOVERS

Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health By Prof David Nutt
 
Take a trip on what happens to your body – and brain – from that very first sip. Straight-forward and straight-talking, this book from the one-time government drugs advisor aims to arm you with all the information you need to make the best decisions for you and your health going forward.

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1. FOR SEEKERS and WELLBEING WARRIORS

Sober Curious by Ruby Warrington
 
What’s the point in doing yoga, meditating, drinking green juice and/or working on yourself in any way, if every Friday you drink so much you cringe at your receipts (and behavior) the morning after? This book from The Numinous founder Warrington invites us to look at the more spiritual side of imbibing poisonous, er, spirits.
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1. FOR THOSE SERIOUS ABOUT GOING – AND STAYING - SOBER

Quit Like a Woman By Holly Whitaker
 
This book couldn’t come soon enough for Holly’s army of female Instagram fans who are hooked on her raw, honest and sometimes uncomfortable accounts of life in recovery (@holly)A call-to-arms to go your own way in a culture obsessed with alcohol, this could be the wake-up call that you – or someone you know – needs to make a drastic change.